From childhood to adulthood, my mother was always capable of anything. When I was a child, I was afraid of the dark. As soon as I turned over, the hand behind me would gently pat and say "Mom is here", and the nightmare would end; Being picky and unwilling to eat vegetables, one can always be patiently coaxed to eat them; Make good meals every day, urging us to go to bed and wake up early, like a timed alarm clock that never misses.

       Nowadays, whenever we watch videos and see delicious food, our first reaction is to share it with our mom and let her satisfy our taste buds. When changing seasons, if I feel uncomfortable in my throat or have skin allergies, I always make a habit of calling my mom first to ask what medicine or cream to take. When I tried cooking for the first time and was flustered and unsure of where to start, I still habitually connected by video, waiting for her to remotely command, instructing on the amount of salt to be added and controlling the timing of flipping.

A mother who can do anything will also grow old

       Now, we have shed our childishness and embarked on our own journey of life, while silver threads quietly emerge from our mother's hair, no longer the black and shiny appearance of the past; Her movements gradually slowed down, and when she bent down to do housework, she couldn't help but pause for a moment and rub her sore waist; Her memory is not as good as before, often forgetting things that were just put away and small things we reminded her of; Time does not stop for anyone. The person who sheltered us from wind and rain back then, unconsciously, already needs us to "hold the umbrella" for her.

Hide tenderness and protection in details

       Buy an electronic blood pressure monitor for mom and teach her how to use it. During weekly video calls, say, 'Mom, take a blood pressure test and show me.' This is not supervision, but a gentle connection to let Mom know that someone is thinking about her body.

       Learn from the way our mother took care of us back then, cook her a light and easily digestible meal, and often say to her, 'Mom, take good care of your digestive system.' This is not nagging, but caring, letting her know that someone is paying attention to her diet.

       After dinner, take the initiative to accompany her for a walk, sit down and chat about daily life, and softly say to her, "Mom, tell me what's on your mind." This is not perfunctory, but attentive companionship, letting her know that there are people willing to listen to the loneliness she can't express.
       Give Mom more tolerance and patience, treat us as gently as she did when she was a child, and softly say to her, 'Mom, take it easy, I'll be with you.' This is not accommodation, but warm feedback, letting Mom know that someone is taking care of and accompanying her.

The bidirectional rush of time

       When we were children, my mother used nagging to cover up her worries, used her shoulders to shield us from wind and rain, and protected us thoroughly; As we grow up, we use actions to protect stability, listen to warm times, and guard that unchanging smile. You don't have to wait until Mother's Day to express your love, protect your mother's health, always in every moment of the present. Laiwo Medical wishes every mother to be gently embraced by time, with a healthy body and a peaceful mind. In the years to come, she will be safe, happy, and worry free.